refactor(server): centralize remote address selection

Unify remote address resolution so startup logging, primary remote URL selection, and /api/meta all consume the same server-side policy. Keep all external addresses user-visible, preserve stable interface ordering, and only de-prioritize link-local addresses when choosing the primary recommended remote URL.

On the UI side, introduce a shared helper that keeps the first remote address visible by default and collapses the remaining addresses behind a reveal action, with i18n coverage and targeted tests for the new selection behavior.

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/en/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "Launch or scan from another machine to hand over control.",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "Loading addresses…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "No addresses available yet.",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "Show {count} other addresses",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "Hide other addresses",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "Network",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "Loopback",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "Internal",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/es/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "Abre o escanea desde otra máquina para transferir el control.",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "Cargando direcciones…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "Aún no hay direcciones disponibles.",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "Mostrar {count} direcciones más",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "Ocultar otras direcciones",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "Red",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "Loopback",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "Interna",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/fr/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "Lancez ou scannez depuis une autre machine pour passer le contrôle.",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "Chargement des adresses…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "Aucune adresse disponible pour le moment.",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "Afficher {count} autres adresses",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "Masquer les autres adresses",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "Réseau",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "Boucle locale",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "Interne",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/he/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "הפעל או סרוק ממכונה אחרת להעברת שליטה.",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "טוען כתובות…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "אין כתובות זמינות עדיין.",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "הצג עוד {count} כתובות",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "הסתר כתובות נוספות",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "רשת",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "לולאה מקומית",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "פנימי",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/ja/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "別の端末から起動またはスキャンして操作を引き継ぎます。",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "アドレスを読み込み中…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "まだ利用可能なアドレスがありません。",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "他の {count} 件のアドレスを表示",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "他のアドレスを隠す",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "ネットワーク",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "ループバック",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "内部",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/ru/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "Откройте или отсканируйте с другой машины, чтобы передать управление.",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "Загрузка адресов…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "Пока нет доступных адресов.",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "Показать еще {count} адресов",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "Скрыть остальные адреса",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "Сеть",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "Loopback",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "Внутренний",

packages/ui/src/lib/i18n/messages/zh-Hans/remoteAccess.ts

@@ -41,6 +41,8 @@ export const remoteAccessMessages = {
   "remoteAccess.sections.addresses.help": "从另一台设备打开或扫描，以接管控制权。",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.loading": "正在加载地址…",
   "remoteAccess.addresses.none": "暂时没有可用地址。",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.showOther": "显示另外 {count} 个地址",
+  "remoteAccess.addresses.actions.hideOther": "隐藏其他地址",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.network": "网络",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.loopback": "回环",
   "remoteAccess.address.scope.internal": "内部",