feat(server): add HTTPS with self-signed certs

Default to HTTPS with optional loopback HTTP, generate/rotate self-signed certs via node-forge, and surface Local/Remote connection URLs. Update /api/meta schema, UI remote access overlay, and desktop shells to follow the new startup output.

packages/server/package.json

@@ -21,7 +21,7 @@
     "build:ui": "npm run build --prefix ../ui",
     "prepare-ui": "node ./scripts/copy-ui-dist.mjs",
     "prepare-config": "node ./scripts/copy-opencode-config.mjs",
-    "dev": "cross-env CODENOMAD_DEV=1 CODENOMAD_SERVER_PASSWORD=codenomad-dev CLI_UI_DEV_SERVER=http://localhost:3000 tsx src/index.ts",
+    "dev": "cross-env CODENOMAD_DEV=1 CODENOMAD_SERVER_PASSWORD=codenomad-dev CLI_UI_DEV_SERVER=http://localhost:3000 CLI_HTTPS=false CLI_HTTP=true tsx src/index.ts",
     "typecheck": "tsc --noEmit -p tsconfig.json"
   },
   "dependencies": {
@@ -31,12 +31,14 @@
     "commander": "^12.1.0",
     "fastify": "^4.28.1",
     "fuzzysort": "^2.0.4",
+    "node-forge": "^1.3.3",
     "pino": "^9.4.0",
     "undici": "^6.19.8",
     "yauzl": "^2.10.0",
     "zod": "^3.23.8"
   },
   "devDependencies": {
+    "@types/node-forge": "^1.3.14",
     "@types/yauzl": "^2.10.0",
     "cross-env": "^7.0.3",
     "ts-node": "^10.9.2",